AOM Podcast

Why is money so stressful and sticky in our love relationships? Bari, we can talk about anything — sex, politics, vaccinations, religion — but we can’t get on the same page about money. We either fight about it … or don’t talk about it at all. I can’t tell you how many couples have told me some version of that, over the last 16 years. And study after study shows: money is the #1 source of stress in intimate relationships.…

October 21, 2017
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For many people, the mere thought of sitting down, logging into their accounts, and looking at the real-life numbers of what they earn, spend, save, and owe is mildly (or extremely) terrifying. If you find yourself in that camp, know that you’re not alone. Why is looking at our money so doggone hard? What can we do about it? And what’s really waiting for us, on the other side? Sit back, relax, and listen in as I share my thoughts…

October 19, 2017
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4 Examples of Money Koans Blog

Dear Community, From time to time, we all face questions in our money relationship that are tougher, more complex, or downright confounding. They’re not as simple as “which bank offers the best interest rate” or “should I hire an accountant this year?” No. I’m talking about the money riddles that can stop us in our tracks and remain unanswered for days, weeks, months, or even years. I’m in a health crisis, so I can’t work as much as usual AND…

September 5, 2017
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