Feeling brave? Take a moment and imagine this hypothetical scenario with me. It’s something I hope never happens to you, but … it’s terribly important to consider.
You and your honey go out for a date night. Your child is safe at home with the babysitter while you two have a great time at your favorite restaurant. You have a warm, glowy evening together. You laugh. You flirt. You discover an absurdly creamy Spanish cheese.
You pay the bill and walk back to the car together, pleasantly full and relaxed. Halfway home, the unthinkable, unspeakable, happens. You get into an accident — the kind that’s so bad, you’re not coming home. Have you ever thought about what would happen in the minutes and hours right after something like that happening? To your money, your belongings, and most importantly: to your child (or children)?
OK, pause. May this never happen to you!! It is not my intention to scare you with this — so, thank you for getting brave and imagining that story, if you did. There really is a beautiful silver lining in this topic. Promise. Just keep reading…
This nightmare scenario is so tender, most of us never want to consider it, let alone make arrangements for it in case it happens. Including me and Forest.
But I had to face this hypothetical scenario when my dear colleague, estate planner Martha Hartney, posed it to me during an interview. Martha’s life work is helping people prepare for what happens after they die (she calls it “life design”) — and showing them how to safeguard their money, possessions, children, and even emotional and intellectual legacy, should they die before they expect.
The conversation Martha and I had about this was incredibly challenging for me — yet it was also one of the most powerful teaching moments I’ve had about money in recent years. And it made me and Forest take a hard look at what we need to do, now, should something tragic happen. And, surprisingly: as tough as it has been for us to look at this kind of estate planning, it has also been full of love, connection, and compassion.
This story comes from behind the curtains of my year-long Art of Money school, which is open for registration now for just a little while longer. To celebrate our once-a-year opening, we’re sharing helpful teaching and interview snippets from the program, woven together into an engaging, storytelling podcast. (And, just yesterday, our new Art of Money Podcast just got promoted to the “New and Noteworthy” section in the education category on iTunes. Super exciting!) At any rate, we hope you love the show, too.
But, back to the story at hand in this episode…sometimes, looking at what most scares us leads us to the deepest peace, and shows us what matters most to us in life.
In this 4th episode of the new Art of Money podcast, you’ll hear excerpts from my emotional (yet also very practical) interview with Art of Money guest teacher, estate planner, and local friend of ours, Martha Hartney. We discuss:
- The #1 decision that delays the estate planning process — and how to make it.
- The surprising truth about what happens to young children when parents die. unexpectedly, and when the parents haven’t done their estate planning (it’s pretty shocking.)
- What you need to do NOW to safeguard your children, money, and possessions in the event that you pass away before you expect to.
- The unconventional video Martha helps every client create for their children.
- A few “wowzers” stories from Martha’s estate planning practice that will give you extra motivation to get your planning done.
Thinking about this stuff isn’t as fun as planning your big Bali vacation or retirement on an Icelandic sheep farm, I know. But it’s incredibly important stuff, and, as you’ll see, it’s deeply meaningful. And, nothing compares to the peace of mind when these puzzle pieces are in place.
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Martha Hartney’s free guide to choosing guardians for your kids: The 7 Must Do’s When Naming Guardians For Kids.
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